Tuesday, April 25, 2006

leaving on a jet plane--not really

This has been the craziest month i've had in a long time--
i'll have to download some other time ..
I'm leaving for the week going to Tan-Tara in the ozark mountains.. should be fun
talk soon

Wednesday, April 19, 2006

Thank you for smoking

I'm not a smoker--never been but neither is anyone else in this movie... But I love this movie.. If you are interested in SPIN as i am (people speaking the truth but using it to their advantage) this movie is for you.. Let me know what you think of it

Friday, April 14, 2006

Good Friday


Calling the day of the Crucifixion ‘Good’ Friday is a designation that is peculiar to the English language. In German, for example, it is called Karfreitag. The Kar part is an obsolete word, the ancestor of the English word care in the sense of cares and woes, and it meant mourning. So in German, it is Mourning Friday. And that is what the disciples did on that day—they mourned. They thought all was lost.

I’ve read that the word good used to have a secondary meaning of holy, but I can’t trace that back in my etymological dictionary. There are a number of cases in set phrases where the words God and good got switched around because of their similarity. One case was the phrase God be with you, which today is just good-bye. So perhaps Good Friday was originally God’s Friday. But I think we call it Good Friday because, in pious retrospect, all that tragedy brought about the greatest good there could be.

I can see virtue in either terminology. If we call it Mourning Friday, as in German, we are facing reality head on, taking up the cross if you will, fully conscious that the Christian walk is seldom a walk in the park. But if we call it Good Friday, as in English, we are confessing the Christian hope that no tragedy—not even death—can overwhelm God’s providence, love, and grace. Either way seems fine to me! (ken collins)

So today I challenge you to take today and think about the goodness of Christ.

Thursday, April 13, 2006

Psalm 23

I'm sure you've heard this Psalm before -- regardless if you read the Bible or not.. This past week at the Gathering Issac Anderson talked about Psalm 23. He talked about it like i've never heard before and it was something that I needed..Psalms teach us the language of intimacy...with God. This Psalm teaches us how to
be peaceful and allow God to take over all of our anxieties and fears.
In this talk Isaac explains how why we are so often compared to sheep--which are some of the dumbest animals--intersting but dumb.

If you can download this talk to your IPOD or just listen to it from your computer.. It is great and helpful.. it meant so much to me..
Also check out Amy's addendum to this in the Sunday night's revisted section..

Monday, April 10, 2006

kicked in the nuts

LIBERTY, Missouri (AP) -- A youth minister was charged with assault for allegedly knocking down a 16-year-old boy and kicking him in the groin after taking a head shot from the teen in a dodgeball game.

David M. Boudreaux, 27, was charged Wednesday with one count of third-degree assault. According to court documents, the incident happened in February at Crescent Lake Christian Academy.
Authorities said the teen missed Boudreaux with one throw but then knocked the youth minister's glasses off with the next.
The boy apologized, authorities said, but Boudreaux pushed him backward, and when the teen got up again Boudreaux kicked him in the groin and left.
The teen suffered whiplash and post-concussion syndrome and had blood in his urine after being kicked, according to court records.Boudreaux later apologized, prosecutors said.Jeanne D. Hewitt, administrator of Crescent Lake Christian Academy, said Boudreaux had been placed on administrative leave.

Copyright 2006 The Associated Press. All rights reserved.

Friday, April 07, 2006

but you're warm

Cyanide and Happiness, a daily webcomic

The Social Norm


Most folks know that I don't really care for hugs..Sometimes it's too much too handle and I am a tad bit claustrophobic anyway.. What folks don't know that where i am from we greet each other with social kisses or in my circle of friends " Holy Kisses".. That doesn't freak me out as much.. weird-- I guess it's done real quick and the other person isn't lingering all over you..
So I am reading the New York Times this morning ( yes I read)
and they have a whole article on social kisses..
so you can read it here

Tuesday, April 04, 2006

do ya want a revolution


The following is an excerpt from The Revolution: A Field Manual for Changing Your World (RELEVANT Books), releasing April 4.

As I began to write an introduction for The Revolution, every cable news channel is on overdrive, fixated on one thing: the devastation caused by Hurricane Katrina after the Category 4 storm slammed into America's Deep South. Hours and hours of footage air throughout the day, mobilizing viewers to help those affected by devastating flooding. Meanwhile, pundits pontificate about our government's willingness (or perceived lack thereof) to help the mostly poor, black population stranded in a watery wasteland. Floods of money pour into major charities' coffers from generous citizens. First responders and socially conscious journalists flock to the scene. And compassionate folks everywhere lament the tragedy.


Every season has its Katrina-like disasters—some natural, some man-made. From hurricanes and terrorist strikes to the quieter, perpetual disasters like hunger, AIDS and human trafficking, societal ills of all kinds are ever-present and great. But greater is the love that can overcome these ills. If God is love, and if we are made in His image and likeness, surely there is enough love in this world to wipe away every tear that falls from the eyes of those afflicted by pain, hunger, war or some other misery.

But how do we collectively tap into that love? What are the ways, both broad and specific, that we can address human strife, human need? And what barriers often stand in the way of us doing so?

In all the ruminating I've done, I've come to some basic conclusions about myself and, perhaps to a certain extent, my generation when it comes to charity:

We're quick to respond, but also quick to forget.

Our generation is moved by intense, dramatic displays of horror and injustice—and we may be willing to open up a vein and start giving until we're drained of all our blood ... for a few days, anyway. Then the memory fades as quickly as our favorite cable news network jumps to another set of news alerts, and for us, life soon moves on to more exciting things.

We're media-moved people.

A movie vividly depicts genocide, and we're immediately online as soon as the credits roll, making a donation to GenocideOrganizationX.org. We see coverage of a terrorist attack unravel on cable TV, and we head to our blogs to post supportive banners. A poignant series on famine in a foreign country has us ready to board a plane with suitcases full of food. Individual crises that become media sensations compel us—but everyday, perennial tragedies like international hunger or poverty simmer quietly in our social subconscious.

We will give freely—as long as doesn't hurt.

We are heartened by outings to serve meals at homeless shelters—especially when we can enjoy a fine dinner at a posh restaurant afterward (if you think I'm making this up, I'm not—I've seen it happen). Like the law-abiding rich young man in Matthew 19 who wanted to do "good," we struggle to give up our own comfort to heed the call of Christ; we're constantly looking for easy and/or indulgent ways to give. But as Mother Teresa said, "I hope you are not giving only your surplus. You must give what costs you, make a sacrifice, go without something you like, that your gift may have some value before God. Then you will be truly brothers and sisters to the poor who are deprived of even the things they need."

We don't have time.

We're hyper-scheduled and overbooked, working 60, 70, even 80 hours a week to bring home the proverbial bacon. All this work leaves little time for band practice, book clubs, sporting events, church meetings and classes. Oh, and, of course, "me" time. To quote from the VeggieTales' "Good Samaritan" cartoon, "We're busy, busy, dreadfully busy. You've no idea what we have to do. Busy, busy, shockingly busy. Much, much too busy for you."

We've got baggage.

Our hearts and minds are burdened by internal conflict. We feel the guilt of living in varying degrees of comfort while our peers half a world away dress in rags and eat little more than dust. It's hard to reconcile our comfortable lives here in America to the lives of those we serve—uneducated people born and raised in poverty, who refuse to depart from what we see as self-destructive, ill-informed lifestyles and don't want to be "saved"; people who will gladly take a handout but don't make any effort to positively change their lives for the long haul.

We're conflicted idealists with cynical alter egos.

We center a lot of our beliefs about how Christians should treat others on the "social gospel" proclaimed by Christ in Matthew 25, yet we can't help but wonder what Christ meant when He said, "The poor you will always have with you, but you will not always have me" (Matt. 26:11, TNIV). And we can't quite reconcile that teaching with the goals of most international anti-poverty campaigns that would eradicate poverty—and actively plan to do so.

There is a revolution that must take place. It is a personal revolution, a communal revolution; above all, it is what Mother Teresa once called a "revolution of love." Instead of relying on anger, bitterness and even violence to spur action to bring about change, we—militants of this revolution of love—use heavenly, God-ordained weapons of charity, love, peace and willful self-sacrifice to serve others using the richness of our talents, knowing that even though only God can eradicate all the world's ills in His time, while we're here on this earth, we can each fulfill His ultimate command to love our neighbors as ourselves.

Heather Zydek is the editor of The Revolution: A Field Manual for Changing Your World (RELEVANT Books), featuring a foreword by Jim Wallis and 12 essays by leading social activists. She is also the editor of the The Revolution page at RELEVANTmagazine.com.